amir ni.... more of a hands-on baby (toddler aa skang, but i like to say baby)...
he wants to know how things work...
aku bagi buku... he's not at all terpikat dengan gamba2 yang warna warni..
sket pun tak pandang... ni yang payahnye nak ngajar die stuff...
die sebok nak tau camne process tutup and bukak buku tu...
kalau pop up book sure die suka...
but suka mechanism.. not the content...
then aku tampal ABC poster dekat laci... die sebok nak tau camne mende tu boleh melekat..
so nak cabut.. sket pun tak pay attention kat all the colorfull and different alphabets..
other stuff he likes...
smart tag and touch and go card... sebok nak figure out camne nak masukkan card and keluarkan..
buckles on my SSC... sebok nak keluar masukkan buckles...
wallet, sebok nak keluar masukkan card dalam wallets..
cars, suka pusing2 tayar.... suka tengok mende rotate...
aku bagi ipodtouch with animal piano software... animal software.. semua kalerful, semua bunyi comel2..
tapi amir sebok nak tekan butang ipod tu.......maka akan automatic terkeluar dari software...
anyways, he is motivated by tangiable stuff.... what he can touch...
you cant touch colors or sounds...
kena bersabar melayan die ni...
especially bila die sebok nak cabut poster ABC aku...
or aku nak suruh die buat something, die plak gi buat something else...
(kes ipod tu)....
its not that he doesnt want to learn.. but he's learning in his own ways...
so kena sabar... (eventhough rase helpless je kengkadang)...
tapi aku tanak give up trying to teach him stuff.. like recognizing cat, dog, ball, teddy...
so ajar ~ 15 kali... sekali je yang die pay attention...
its easy to give up.. and say.. biarla die blajar sendiri nanti...
tapi kena kuatkan usaha... maybe i have to teach double the time...
bukan sebab sebok nak bagi die pandai .. tapi aku rase banyak aa time wasted with TV and shopping...
so kena gak aa masukkan sket teaching .... opportunity to teach is every where..
like syaz ckp.. dlm lif pun boleh ajar 1,2,3.....
oo tapi die menggigit nipples balik..
for fun... die ingat main.. aku dah buat muka and nada marah dah..
tapi die sengeh.. then bagi time out (me walking away, die nangeh aaa)...
if i dont walk out, die akan gigit and sengeh lagi ..
kalau tutup nipple ngn tangan die gigit tangan...and lengan.. what ever lah..
aku dah try taktik biar and tahan aa .. supaya die disinterested.. tapi tak jadi..
lelama sakit aaa aa.. dah la gigit nipp.. then tarik plak ngn gigi...
kagum gile nipple aku tak luka...
how to disipline... inputs please..
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suka gila animal piano software tuuu..sangat cute bunyi2 dia(mak nye yg suka) my baby macam amir kot, dia lagi sebok belek2 iphone dari nak tekan2 sbb dia cam nak figure out where does the sound came from.
maybe you can buy him lego for babies? kot dia suka pasang bukak2.
Elly, jangan risau sangat. Rasanya Hadif macam Amir. Susah nak concentrate bila ajar apa-apa. Beza sangat dengan Haziq. Even tengok tv pun Hadif tak concentrate, tengok sekejap2 saja. Sampai tak tau apa yang dia minat. Last2 tak ambik pot sangat. Tak ajar guna buku, ajar guna sekeliling. Nampak bas, tunjuk dekat dia cakap, itu bas. Nampak burung, itu bird (siap tiru bunyi lagik)
Ajar 1,2,3...time naik tangga kira. Nanti bila naik tangga dia sendiri akan kira...one, four, seven...:D Lama2 pandaila ikut turutan.
tak risau dengan amir...
tapi risau dengan kemalasan and sikap sambil lewa diri sendiri mengajar anak...
so itu yang kena menyemangatkan diri tu.... :D
elly, have you tried pushing his face towards your breast? tak leh bernafas let go la tu ha ha.
try la.. no guarantees, yknow babies/kids, are not as predictable as we think they are!
waa creative solution! nanti i try.. sounds promising
beb, babies memg cenggitu aa...ur boy s A BRILLIANT kid, tu yg nk try memcm tuh....yang tang geget nipp time breastfeed tuh, tak dapek nk tolong aa...i dulu CUBIT j pipi dia , confirm a nanges pastu...tp sok sok buat lagik
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